Memorability Is the New King
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‘Memorable’ is the new buzz word in my head right now (it used to be ‘chocolate’). I believe that when you write on a blog, the degree to which you will grow and have success is directly proportionate with the memorability of your content.
Why Memorability Rules
I’m fascinated by a part of psychology studying the laws of human memory. There are some interesting discoveries made in this area I think every blogger would benefit from knowing. One fundamental law of memory is this:
A person can only use what they remember.
In other words, psychologists agree with the importance of memorability in general. Now, how does this apply to blogging in particular?
As a communication coach, I find that when readers are able to remember your blog and its content well, a few very important things happen:
- They come back to your blog to read other content you have posted;
- They apply what you teach and if they get results, this builds your credibility;
- They share your content using social media or email communication;
- They talk to other people about your blog or specific ideas on it.
Ultimately, because of your memorability and your blog’s memorability, readers become your very own free advertising agency. That’s how a blog grows its readership, followership, influence and of course, money making potential.
Now For the Bad News
Yes, good news has a bad one that tags along. In this case, the bad news is that, in my experience, memorability is one of the hardest traits to develop for your blog.
I find this interesting because if you think about it, we are all unique as people and we all have the potential to be memorable. However, when we go online, create a blog and put content on it, we tend to leave our personality at the door and start imitating other bloggers out there, hoping to mimic their success level.
Good blogging doesn’t work that way. As a matter of fact, good anything doesn’t work that way. Sure, it makes sense to follow some of the patterns other bloggers follow and to copy bits of their strategies that create results. But unless you can give everything a fresh, exciting and unique spin, you won’t get anywhere.
How to Make Your Blog Memorable
Fortunately, memorability is a trait that can be consciously developed. The following four ideas are in my perspective a good starting point for doing so:
- Use a unique theme. I deliberately stay away from any blog theme that is getting too popular. I don’t want people to confuse my blog with the blog of some other guy because of its appearance. Use a theme that’s easy to use, looks good and also gives your blog a unique feeling.
- Use memorable headlines. A person often has more chances of remembering the title of an article that the content itself. I don’t know if it’s a good thing or not, but it does tend to happen. So, put a big part of your memorability juice there and write posts with headlines that people remember.
- Discuss controversial ideas. In any field, there are some controversial ideas. For example, in the area of personal development there is this controversial idea that focusing too much on personal development will turn against you. Identify the controversial ideas in the field of your blog and write about them.
- Stop censoring yourself. I find that many people censor themselves pointlessly in communication. Most of us have an exaggerated fear of upsetting others with some of our perspectives, so we keep them to ourselves. Don’t do this! Let your inner voice and your true self shine on your blog.
In my view, being memorable is mostly the result of expressing your true self and doing so in a unique, passionate and proud style. Keep in mind that some people may not like your true self or your style, but nevertheless, it’s what will also make you loved by others and memorable to all.

Gibson Goff said:
Finally, some one writing with character and not for mass appeal! Hallelujah!
It’s way too easy to get sucked into writing with the herd – check what’s hot, crank out some dribble and post it. And then tomorrow you have to do it all over again.
Write something memorable, and it lives, it come to life before your very audience. And then lives on forever.
Great post! Thanks!
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Thank you Gibson! I think that writing with character actually has a sort of mass appeal, even if sometimes it’s bad appeal. Especially in online, any reputation is good reputation.
Daniel Rose said:
I particularly agree with the part about censoring yourself. If you do that, you end up losing that level of authenticity that we all seek.
Daniel
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Yes Daniel, I think censoring equals losing memorability.
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techandlife said:
Excellent post. I do find myself bookmarking posts which are saying the same things over again and just aren’t memorable. You’re absolutely right, it’s important to have a memorable site design and memorable content to bring people back and to encourage others to share your blog. Retweeted.
Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Told ya
Nick and I thank you for the retweet.
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Murlu said:
I probably censor myself way to often – I don’t like being negative but sometimes I just want to rip into things that are against popular belief.
Maybe I should.
It’s a toughie because you don’t want to be seen as the “bad guy” but at the same time, you don’t just want “yes men” – people that just completely go with your topic alllll the time.
To be frank – blogging is getting a bit boring because we’re all going in circles; it’s time to end it.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Dude, this bad guy topic is huge in my life. I used to be a really nice guy and I realized that nice guys are too safe to get very far.
Now, I have more of an edge and I think one needs an edge in blogging as well.
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Ron Leyba said:
Thanks for the article Eduard! I really love how you defined “memorability” in the blogging sense. It is like branding yourself so people will start to recognize and remember you by the way you write and you present your blog to others.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
I’m glad you like it Ron. Like I said, memorability is a buzz word for me.
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Pritam @ TheAdMatrix said:
Yes, interesting. I really liked the idea. Just think of yourself as a reader of other blog and you will find, memorability is one of the key factor in determining the success of the blog. Sometimes, when I think of some ideas I have read somewhere and if I remind the name of of the blog, it remains longer in my memory.
So apply the ideas as you discussed above to make your blog memorable.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
This is a good exercise for anybody: think of the blogs you remember – what made them memorable for you?
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Sampath Amitash said:
The idea of “Stop Censoring Yourself” is very nice. Great tip Eduard!
Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
I like it too
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Gabriele Maidecchi said:
All very excellent points, but I especially liked #2 and #4.
Headlines provide a good 50% of the success of a post, good content or not. It provides what I call a “headline bait”, hopefully to valuable content, ’cause in the end a good headline is just a way to attract visitors, they won’t come back if what you write isn’t as good as the headline.
About censoring, many people, me included, find hard to discuss a topic 100% honestly on the web. We’re afraid of what others will think of us. However I came to realize this is the highest value you can reach through your blog: getting to know others’ opinion on a topic you’re interested in and that you *think* to know throughly. You’re often surprised by the results.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
I realized the importance of headlines recently and once I did, I became hooked. Now I’m almost obsessed with writing sexy headlines – as you can see
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Whiztechy said:
“memorability” is something totally new concept for me and using it with blogging is awesome.I totally agree that if blogger is having unique content and design it will surely help to attract readers and they will re-visit blog again. Copying content never works, we have to come up with our own style of writing to have a unique online persona to become memorable.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Well, I’m glad I’ve introduced you to a new concept. Trust me, it is a powerful one.
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Amy said:
A very well written article, Eduard! There’s so much more to substance than quantity. I wish more blog authors would recognize and engage in this practice.
There’s a few really quick ways to make me leave a blog and seeing random spouted sentences and sentence fragments ranks right up at the top of that list. The best blogs will always certainly have memorability.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Hey Amy,
There is a lot more to substance than quantity: logic, evidence, eloquence, memorability and I could go on.
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Amy said:
I didn’t quite spit that out right so maybe that’s why you responded the way you did. What I meant was “there’s so much more to be said for creating substance than creating quantity”.. referring to the common problem of arriving at blogs and seeing generic mass posts instead of a focus on quality.
Thanks!
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Haha, don’t worry, I was only fooling around in the comment box
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Dennis Edell @ Direct Sales Marketing said:
Ahh censoring, luckily something that’s never really been an issue for me.
As long as my point is valid, have all the problems with it you need to, then deal with it.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Good for you. That’s rare
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Dennis Edell @ Direct Sales Marketing said:
Not too fast. For better or worse, a small percentage might indeed have to do with the fact that I am here, you are there.
If you were to call me a lying scamming scumbag to my face, we may have issues.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
LOL
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Jeevanjacobjohn said:
Great Post, Eduard.
I really like it when people mix psychology and blogging (I really like because I was a pysch student – Its an interesting science).
I agree with you on that fact that we should not mimic others. My opinion is that we can take something out of all other bloggers and mix them with our own personality (or character) to create a unique style.
The Best part about your article is “how to make your blog memorable” section.. You have got some good tips.
Thanks for the great read, Eduard !
Jeevan Jacob John
Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Finally, someone on the same page(aaa… field) with me. I like this mix as well. Put a bit of psychology in almost anything and it works wonders
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Tyrell Mara said:
Eduard,
Great post! I think in a world of buzz-words, “memorability” is one that has tremendous value, but isn’t discussed enough!
I especially appreciate your comments about letting your sensor down and speaking from the heart. This is something that I think the reader can notice and appreciates!
Cheers,
Tyrell Mara
Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Thanks Tyrell,
Memorability is a big topic for me so I like to talk about it in relation with everything, blogging included.
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Kimi said:
Hi Eduard,
What a unique post, i like the “censoring myself” point, i guess i have done often so far
Time to change, but..sigh, i just want to be myself actually.
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Eduard - People Skills Decoded said:
Thank you. Considering I’m preaching uniqueness here, It had better be
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Reza Winandar said:
“They come back to your blog to read other content you have posted”
Yes this is true when they bookmarked your blog instead copying the content.