The 7 Deadly Sins Of Unseasoned Bloggers
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I have been blogging for almost 5 years and in that time I have seen more bloggers come and go than I care to mention. The reality of blogging for profit is it’s incredibly difficult. A tiny percentage ever get to the point where they’re making sufficient income to cover their expenditure, never mind getting to the stage where they can upgrade from Ramen Noodles to filet mignon.
Today I wanted to share with you 7 mistakes that I regularly see new bloggers make and that are relatively easy to avoid.
#1
Thinking It’s Going To Be Easy
I really don’t care how many books you have read about 6-figure blogging, what forums you’re a member of, or how good a writer you are, blogging is still phenomenally difficult if you want to make a good income. And it’s only getting harder.
If you set off thinking it’s an easy way to quick cash, unless you are an SEO genius with lots of time on your hands, you’re going to get very frustrated, very quickly.
Of course some people have gone from zero to a highly profitable blog in a matter of a few months. But by the same token quite a few people have run a sub 10 second 100m, but that doesn’t mean you can.
That’s not a reason not to do it, but it is a reason not to quit your day job on a wave of enthusiasm brought on by getting 15 retweets for your second ever blog post.
#2
Having The Same Plan As Everybody Else
If you want to spend hours on end running around commenting on every blog under the sun, be my guest. If you want kiss some ‘A’ list booty, be my guest. If you want to spend half your waking day on Twitter or Facebook pimping your material, be my guest.
Just be aware you are one of tens of thousands doing exactly the same thing and it’s unlikely to get you where you want to be. Not that there is anything wrong with doing any of that stuff in moderation (and with a plan), but temper your expectations of the return on your investment.
Having the same plan as everybody else is effectively having no plan at all.
Do different stuff. Do unique stuff. Do stuff that gets people talking about you.
#3
Asking For Help
I follow everybody back on Twitter that talks to me. I have notifications turned off, but the minute somebody responds to me in any way I follow them back.
That is until I get a DM 10 minutes after I followed them asking me to retweet one of their posts or read their latest ebook. Seriously? We only just met and you want me to help you promote your business, a business that I don’t even know? Sometimes I patiently explain etiquette, sometimes I just unfollow them.
#4
Not Asking For Help
Ok, so I know I said asking for help was a mistake, but bear with me here, all will become clear.
I get an e-mail this morning from another Life Coach who’s just starting out asking me if I would mentor him. I said yes. I’ve just finished mentoring another coach and his timing was impeccable.
The thing is I already knew this guy. I considered him somewhat of a friend and I have been interacting with him for well over a year. I can, and do, say no regularly to people I know, but I NEVER begrudge them asking me. Isn’t that what friends are for?
#5
Being Scared Of The Competition
You have to have faith that you’re the best, or at the very least, one of the best, at whatever niche you’re in. I have no problem running guest posts from other Life Coaches or recommending their blogs to clients and potential clients. In fact Nicholas regularly runs guest posts here from people that some may consider competitors.
I know that sounds counter-intuitive, but it really isn’t. Mixing with, getting to know and then helping your peers demonstrates confidence and also builds up trust with your audience because they can see it’s not just about you.
#6
Being Thin-Skinned
I wouldn’t recommend you go and read some of my early blog posts, but if you were so inclined you’d notice they all had one thing in common. They were crap.
Writing is a practice and it is something you will get better at the more you do it. When you first start it’s ok to publish some stuff that you’re not sure about.
Firstly, you won’t have too many readers to lose, but more importantly, what readers you do have will then be able to offer feedback. The key to this is if you get criticism to never, ever, take it personally!
Your readers don’t know you and when they respond to a post they are responding to what you’ve written and not YOU. I never ever delete comments criticizing me, in fact I welcome them because that’s how I learn and grow both as a coach and a writer.
Roll with the punches and you’ll learn a lot more quickly than if you get all defensive every time somebody disagrees with something you say.
#7
Not Focusing On Keywords
If you look at the link back to my site you will see it is under the term Life Coach. That’s because I’m a Life Coach and when Google crawls this site I want it to stop and think “Hmm, this site is telling me that site is about Life Coaching, maybe I should send people looking for a Life Coach there?”
Inbound links are the life blood of successful sites. Why do you think Wikipedia is at the top of almost anything you search for? It’s because millions of other websites link to it and Google knows it will supply answers and therefore it’s highly relevant.
Work out how you want people to find you and focus on that keyword or keyword string. You may have to be a bit creative with this bit in avoiding coming up with search terms that aren’t insanely competitive. Deciding you want to be found under the term ‘Blogger’ aint gonna work, trust me.
Decide on your niche and stick to it. Ruthlessly.

Allie said:
Tim,
None of this is original. None of this content is unique BUT it never gets old hearing the horrible truths of blogging, especially for profit.
I have heard these horrible truths many times in my last year of blogging and have blatantly ignored all the seasoned bloggers. I keep trying to find the angle; the thing that makes me different. I don’t think I have yet but I won’t give up.
I do have the time, I am fortunate. I am a substitute teacher so on my off days I type all day.
What I enjoyed about this post is your advise. Especially the last part referring to keywords, “Work out how you want people to find you”. THIS is such great advice for SEO! I am told to find keywords for Google results, which I assume we still need to do BUT ultimately these keywords are still read by people. People you want to come to your blog. It makes perfect sense.
Thank you for reminding me that it is still an uphill battle but I know I can only get better-Right?
~Allie
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Tim Brownson said:
Too many people online focus on what they do rather than what problem they solve. We all have to get inside the heads of our potential clients and figure out what problems they want solving and how they are asking Google for help.
Then we can target ourselves and make life a tad easier.
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Brittany P Rubinstein said:
Definitely agree with Allie. It’s easy to get caught up in blogging so it’s always good to have a reminder no matter how many times you’ve heard it before.
Thinking it’s going to be easy is the biggest mistake I think most people make. If all it took to be a successful blogger was writing your thoughts down, we’d have a lot more people doing it.
Jennifer said:
Good stuff Tim, I can see why Nick was so excited to get this post! A lot of this I knew, but its a great refresher for those who are still in the newbie stage. It’s an awkward stage where you know alot but not enough to realize what you don’t know.
Tim Brownson said:
Agreed 100%, I cannot believe how little I knew in my first year of blogging. Even these days I still need to occasionally remind myself to get the basics right!
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Pepper said:
I loved #3 & #4. There is a right way of asking and a wrong way of asking.
Truly if you are not going to make the effort to create a relationship with me then please don’t ask me for a favor.
But if you are going to take the time and get to know me then you will quickly learn I love helping out my friends!
Do you let people know somehow that you don’t follow back unless they interact with you or do you just keep that as your rule? I struggle with this, because I like to follow those who are following me, but its gotten to a point where I have to be selective.
Nicholas Cardot said:
That’s interesting that you honed in on his mention of how he follows people. I caught that too and thought it was neat because I do the same thing. Of course, I don’t speak for Tim, but I don’t really announce that I follow that way. I just jump in and follow whoever’s being personable, not whoever happens to follow me.
Tim Brownson said:
Yeh that’s my take. If people want to chat I am well up for that, if they want to look important, not so much
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Tim Brownson said:
I don’t Pepper because I don’t like auto DM’s and it would take too long monitoring it. My theory is if they are genuine then they’ll say hi or talk to me at some stage. Then if I don’t recognize the name I’ll check and follow back if I’m not already doing so.
I reckon I get about 50 new followers per week, but probably 40 unfollow within a day or two because I haven’t immediately followed back. They are the people that are just looking to increase their follower count either to soothe their ego or to create social proof.
I’m really not into that bs, I like to chat with people and have fun first and foremost.
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Robin Jennings said:
I loved #5- I often talk to people in the non-web world that don’t understand why bloggers guest write on potential competitors blogs.
Helping a competitor out?
Say what?!?
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Tim Brownson said:
Agreed Rob, it does sound rather counter-intuitive, but it creates win/win situations and that’s what it’s all about as far as I’m concerned.
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Codeforest said:
Tell me about it.
It is really hard to make an impact by blogging these days.
But I am giving my 100% and am satisfied with my results.
You should always just keep going and follow your dreams.
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Tim Brownson said:
And that is all you can do CF. If you know in your heart of hearts you are giving it 100%, then that’s always good enough!
Best of luck with it!
Amanda said:
Great advice! I especially like the part about how its ok to publish crappy stuff in the beginning. I certainly did, and the few readers I had gave me great feedback, and not creepy, trolly, mean feedback either, but genuinely helpful stuff! The best way to learn is just by doing- as long as you don’t quit your day job.
Tim Brownson said:
I actually cringe at some of my early stuff now, especially when I get a random retweet of some steaming pile I wrote 4 years ago!
But without going through that process I would have never found my voice and my rather unusual writing style.
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ah hong said:
Tim, great stuff and I love #1 the most. I am having situation where some of my friends joined internet marketing programme with fast and easy money mentality. Frankly, I don’t know how internet marketing really works though and it always sounds too good to be true. Will keep remind myself that ‘Rome Wasn’t Built In One Day’ and build success over time
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Tim Brownson said:
Wise advice mate, if something looks too good to be true that’s often because it is!
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Nancy @ Laser Treatment for Acne said:
I agree its defintely not easy especially the first few months, they are damn hard. It can be frustrating at times. I remember when I asked people for help and how they told me keep reading u will eventually get success. The thing is keep working hard, keep hustling, success isn;t far.
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Tim Brownson said:
And also to remember that success can also be the journey. If you are doing something you love then you are being successful in my opinion
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Michael @Blast4TrafficNow said:
You got it all figured out man. I enjoyed the post and it’s inspired me to concentrate on what I already have and make my blog unique.
THanks for sharing
Tim Brownson said:
Not so sure I have it all figured out to be honest, but I get the basics and know how much hard work is involved.
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Get Out of Debt Guy said:
That was one of the most refreshing and spot-on truthful posts I’ve read about the realities of running a successful site.
Too many people start a blog only to not realize the depth of work it takes to make it successful.
Tim Brownson said:
Tell me about it, too many people think all they have to do is replicate the big guys and they’ll make a boat load of cash.
That’s like saying I have this great recipe for Cola and now I’m off to usurp Coke and Pepsi!
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Web Designer said:
Hi Tim, good tips, it’s certainly not easy. I fear I’ve made some of these mistakes but I also find that over time as you build up more articles and more useful content I think it gets easier. you kind of feel like you are talking to yourself at the start.
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Tim Brownson said:
We all make mistakes. I made a huge mistake this last week. It’s learning from them that counts bud!
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Nicholas Cardot said:
A huge mistake, huh? Now you’ve got us all curious wanting to know what it is. Well, at least, you’ve got me curious.
zamahsari@topbestphonereviews said:
It is amazing to keep on blogging for a long time and you one of the men. I am interested with the point #2 that differentiate the creative blogger from the average ones. The first surely will stand a chance against the competitors out there.. Nice post..
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Tim Brownson said:
Thanks and it’s no easy being different with so many blogs out there, but you can do your best and be as authentic as you possibly can be and hope that’s enough.
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Event Photography said:
Like your comments about twitter and following other tweeters. I really feel the auto DMs that come through after you follow someone as really crude especially when it is a hard sell. I normally unfollow at that point.
Tim Brownson said:
Yeh I agree, auto Dm’s are bad enough, but auto Dm’s trying to sell to you as well!
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Noel Addison said:
I agree with #6. There are bloggers who get mad when they receive negative feedback. They take it personally instead of taking it as a constructive criticism.
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Tim Brownson said:
Agreed Noel, it’s not easy to do, but if you can do it then the rewards are cool.
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AstroGremlin said:
Tim, you kind of hurt my feelings with that comment about being thin-skinned. But I wanted to ask your help. On second thought, I don’t need your help. Well, yes I do. I would like to know how long it took you to devise the language in mistake #2. Because I think it’s brilliant. This may not be an original idea. But the way you put it is, with that breezy tone, and the phrase, “If you want kiss some ‘A’ list booty, be my guest.” Nice.
I was just kidding about the hurt feelings. My best e-friends have pointed out crappy elements of my blog. I went back and added to an article a guy said was a chunk of crap, and it gets views every day from organic searches. If I write a hundred more like that, I can support my domain name. As a life coach do you feel a responsibility to steer writers away from blogging? Because it really is not easy. Love it anyway.
Tim Brownson said:
LMAO – nice on, you certainly got me with that first bit!
As a coach I feel it’s my job to support my clients with whatever they want to do. If they want to blog then I will help, if they don’t, then I wont force them.
All my work is client led and I never make assumptions that I know best.
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Peggy said:
Very interesting post. Especially love this “If you want kiss some ‘A’ list booty, be my guest. If you want to spend half your waking day on Twitter or Facebook pimping your material, be my guest.” Made me laugh which is always a good thing.
Peggy
Sonia said:
#6 was my favorite. You have to be thick-skinned if you blog. Not everyone is going to like what you say or do. No matter how good things are going, there is always someone on their way to come and piss you off.
I always look at those in situations in this way: It’s easy for people to type hateful statements in the comfort of their own home, but would they have the guts to actually say it to your face? I think not, so why let stupid comments bother you? I don’t make time for cowards.
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Shaun Hensher said:
Thanks for the advice Tim! I’m pretty new to blogging, but I think it’s going pretty well!
Ryan Critchett said:
Yep, it aint easy! Really good point about trying to do what everyone else does. The truth is, there is no room for more “blogging about blogging” bloggers. You can’t replicate what Darren Rowse does.
The blogosphere is in a funny state right now. New, creative, never been done before kind of stuff will win going forward. Psyched to be a part of it all. Great post, Tim.
P.S. Nick, Your blog was early in the game, and your content is distinctly better than most bloggers who blog about the things you talk about. So, you’ll be good. As long as you keep cranking out the good stuff!
Justin said:
Tim,
You make some excellent points here. I have been blogging for a few years and would have to agree with most of what you say. ATTENTION: All new bloggers, #7 is more important than you think. In the beginning I didn’t know much about keywords so I just focused on content. Well, now I have to review my blog, my guest blog posts, etc. and try to focus on the keywords I should have been paying attention to all along.
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Tiffany said:
Hi Tim,
This is a nice list of crucial mistakes in blogging. I’d like to agree that it is never easy. Success is never really easy because if it is, we will never taste the sweet taste of success. Also, in marketing, there is no perfect strategy. Businesses or companies need to formulate their own combination of strategies that they think will work for them based on some data like traffic source, consumer behaviors, etc. And the same goes in blogging as well.
Ana @ Deceased Estate Sales said:
Tim,
helping and not-helping is my favorite part of the article. If want to have high quality content and high quality blog, we have to surround ourselves with high quality people and expose ourselves to high quality content of others.
I agree with you. If somebody who has been your acquaintance for a year, and somebody whose tweets you’ve just read are the same…then let’s all just drown in spam or let the machines take over our actions.
Tim Brownson said:
Thanks for all the great feedback people.
Now go do the work!
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Scott said:
Hi Tim,
Nice post. I’m just getting into the world of blogging and found this post very helpful. It is always nice to know the pitfalls before you fall in them. # 5 is an important one. When you are just starting out the competition can seem pretty tough. Thanks
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Steve / The Designer said:
Just starting my blog career and your advice come in handy in the right time. I am definitely not going to quit my job for the moment.
Alex said:
Hello,
I’m agree with 5th mistake. You shouldn’t afraid your competitors. Just make it your way and provide useful advises for your particular niche and you will get your part of traffic.
Best wishes, Alex
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Crystal Adkins said:
I know nothing is easy and your one of the few people I have read that will actually say that.
My problem lies with my niche. I have a stereotyped niche of mobile homes. I want to be the blog that everyone living in mobile homes goes to get ideas and inspiration for updating and remodeling think ‘House Beautiful’ but for mobiles. I can’t go to the high to middle class owned homemaking/crafting blogs that are so popular and start talking about mobile homes, it will not be received well. I can’t really go to the repair sites either..my problem is a very interesting one if someone would like to do a case study. I can’t afford a pro, I live in a trailer for goodness sake (kidding, sorta) …any suggestions?