5 Things Teens Can Teach You About Twitter
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Both me and Nicholas ( Cardot ) are bloggers and we’re both pretty savvy when it comes to the Internet. The 2 of us are also on Twitter (me, Nick ) where we regularly communicate with our followers, always tweeting, ReTweeting and @replying. We may both be tweeters and bloggers but one major difference between us is age.
There are plenty of things that Nick could teach you about Twitter but there’s also plenty of things that being a teenager can teach you as well. A lot of people take the wrong approach to Twitter, using it for a constant stream of spam links and self-promotion but if you intend to use Twitter for communications, networking and marketing this is not very effective.
Teens are really social and as Twitter is an extremely sociable platform, it only makes sense that I, as a teen, can teach you a few things about the micro-blogging service.
1. Be Social
School is miserable. Lessons, tests and detentions from teachers who you don’t like and who don’t like you. 00.0% of teens who you speak to will agree that school is a bore. The one way to get through it is to have some friends to hep you to pass the time. But how do you make friends? It’s by talking and being social of course.
Twitter is the same, if you’re using it for communication, make sure that you reply to every DM, @reply and though provoking tweet that you get in your timeline. It’s the only way that you can make friends and gain follows as well as influence on the site.
Not only this, but being social can result in great opportunities because of your network and creating this loyal group of followers will increase the likelihood of people ReTweeeting our links, making more people aware of you through their marketing.
2. Play Nice
Think about your school days. Remember that there was that bully in the playground who was mean to everyone? When it comes to Twitter, don’t be that guy. As if us teens didn’t dislike school enough without the addition of overbearing thugs annoying us in corridors!
Here’s a life lesson : once you’re the bad-guy, you’re always the bad-guy and if you consistently insult people via Twitter, you’ll quickly gain a reputation as a loud mouth bully. If you have something to say, remember the 2 C’s – Creative Criticism. If you’ve got a problem with someone or something, be polite and say it gently. At least that way you get to voice your opinion and help someone out too!
3. Get that Extra-Credit
Take it from me,your lessons are a whole lot easier when your teachers like you”! For any teenager in any class there’s a meanie (usually the guy from number 2) who is rude to the teacher and has no manners. That kid practically lives in detention!
There’s always a teacher’s pet too, who showers the teacher in compliments. That kid, is a genius.
With Twitter, compliments get you everywhere. @reply lovely messages (only if you mean them!) and watch as your followers attempt to create relationships with you, who is obviously a nice, kind-hearted person. You’ll also increase your chance of being followed as more people will tell their followers to follow you!
4. Pay Attention
Recently, I got the chance to teach a lesson to my peers as part of an assessment. The lesson plan was the easy part but what I found difficult about it was that the class wouldn’t pay attention for very long. It’s obvious that you learn more when you give something your entire focus, not getting distracted at all, especially in school but this same technique can definitely be applied to Twitter.
If you pay attention to Twitter, you’ll notice when people are talking about certain trends which means that they’ll be using search engines to search for them too. You’ll be able to harness that extra traffic potential by writing great posts about the latest ‘in-thing’ that the Internet is into.
5. Be Prepared
The worst thing in high school is to show up to a lesson unprepared. Everyone’s experienced that moment when the fear hits, and the sheer look of horror slowly creeps upon your face as you realize that the homework that you spent an entire weekend on, lays on a work-table, at home, miles out of reach because you simply forgot to prepare the night before and put it in your bag, ready to take to school.
Knowing what you’re using Twitter for can really help. Using it for marketing? Know and prepare what links you’ll be sharing when you get a flood of new followers. What about communication? Be ready to jump in and get involved with the ‘happening’ discussions, this will also help to make you look like an expert in your field too. If you’re a Twitter networker, preparing to reply to your followers can let them know that you appreciate them!
What other tips do you have for people trying to establish themselves on Twitter? Add them below in the comments!

Steve @Erraticblog said:
Good points Jasmine. I think a lot of us non-teenagers are guilty of not following #4
Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Very true! Procrastination and distractions are pretty tough to tackle, even at the best of times.
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GoCatGo said:
You are wise beyond your years Jasmine.
And … you’re right Steve … about #4. But I’d add #5 as its equal … although it’s a bit more challenging as social media is still evolving at a rapid pace.
Interestingly, all five (but especially the first three) are rules one should follow throughout every aspect of daily life.
Social media is new and exciting, but it comes down to interacting with others in a respectful, supportive manner. Remember, it’s a “community.”
Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I definitely agree with what you said about social media being a community. And the fact that it is a very lively and engaging atmosphere that encourages us to interact can be put into our daily lives.
Thanks for the comment!
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Nabeel | Create Your First Website said:
Hey Great tips!
I think being generally nice to people will help you in a big way. Also showing interests in information that people give away will help you build a relationship.
I think you compared twitter and social networking to teens really effectively!
Kindest,
Nabeel
Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I all for the concept that being nice doesn’t cost a thing and a little bit of kindness can go a long way.
Thanks for the comment Nabeel!
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Dev - Technshare.com said:
Hey Jasmine,
Really awesome Post.
I really like the #1 and #4 points. Grreatt..!!
Thanks for sharing this great Post.
~Dev
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I’m glad you liked it Dev, thanks for the comment!
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Rebecca Hollis said:
I love the Facebook generation…. they naturally get it.
This was written just before I went self employed http://www.ecademy.com/node.php?id=146128)
Not being far off of my teens myself (I am not yet mid twenties anyway) I totally get the ‘real’ guiding principles of SM which has longevity such as making sure you take your customers on the journey with you, making friends and collaborating. It’s no different offline as it is online.
Point #3 about teachers pet is spot on and I identified that form an early age. Even though I was not the the shy, quiet girl that always did everything I was told I had respect for those around me and knew the cheeky boundries. The teachers loved my personality and that side of me has always swong in my favour.
Great post and I will look forward to see some great stuff from you in the future.
@beckysocial
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
The teacher’s pet things is quite noticeable on Twitter. You can see when certain people have influence and who are the most prominent figures on the site and it’s something that we definitely have to look out for.
Thanks for the comment Rebecca!
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tushar said:
the point about getting extra attention is nice dude….
teens do like to get attention and this may help a lot in twitter….
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
“Innovation is the key”, well said Tushar.
Thanks for the comment!
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Jazz Salinger said:
Hi Jasmine,
Congratulations on such a great post. You’re so young and yet this is excellent advice. I can see you’re going to have a very big future.
I’m still struggling with #1. I know that you have to be social just as if you would if Twitter was an offline function.
I don’t find it easy to get conversations happening. But, I’m working on it.
Thanks again for the great tips.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Thank you
Your comment actually made me smile!
Number 1 is a little tricky at first but it’s just about breaking out of your shell and just interacting, just little comments and inputs at first, with the people at your network. Constant practice will make the conversations much easier.
Thanks for the comment Jazz!
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Blog Angel a.k.a. Joella said:
Jasmine, what an insightful and provoking post. I think we all need to be reminded now and then of how to build genuine relationships online, cuz those are the ones that will pay of in the end. Those will be the people who stick with you and help give you and your blog a leg up.
Way to tell us old fogies how its done!
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Lol, blogging has no age! I agree, it’s incredibly important to form relationships with our blogging and social media cohorts, especially if we want to get ahead in the ‘game’ that is the Internet.
Thanks for the comment Joella!
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Whiztechy said:
Hey Jasmine, Awesome way to look Twitter is different way, you make it easy to show how to use Twitter effectively.For me Twitter is best way to know what’s going on around if we pay attention to it.
Nice article
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I use Twitter a lot for keeping me updated on current events, you make a good point there.
Thanks for the comment!
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Stephen @ The Blogging Academy said:
Hi Jasmine,
Great post. You make some very interesting observations about Twitter, and life.
I look forward to reading more of your posts in the future.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
How kind of you
Thanks for the comment Stephen!
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Onibalusi Bamidele said:
Really great post Jasmine,
Being social is very important and that is one of the major reason twitter was established.
Thanks a lot for the great post,
-Onibalusi
Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Indeed, I think that it’s the exact reason that Twitter was created.
Thanks for the comment Onibalusi!
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Dean Saliba said:
Using Twitter and Facebook has helped me become more sociable. This is certainly something that I need to access.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Don’t forget that both Twitter & Facebook can be used to market your blog and being sociable can really improve that.
Thanks for the comment Dean!
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Murlu said:
I remember hearing how so many companies actually started to hire teens to tell them about social media.
Who better to explain this than people that are so absorbed into it that it becomes their daily routine?
I actually had my boss come up to me and talk about “the Twitter” – sat him down, went over it and told it basically exactly how this post explained it
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
With adults I find that they’re generally very ‘work-centric’ whereas teens whole entire lives revolve around socialising and getting to know one another so it only make sense for us to pretty nifty when it comes to social media!
Thanks for the comment!
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Ron Leyba said:
Nice article Jasmine. I am now learning, from a teenager. But sometimes, its hard to do the number 2. Especially to those not too nice tweeples.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I’ve met exactly 2 mean tweeples and I’ve been on Twitter for 2 years now. No matter what, you must remeber to ignore them! Being mean won’t get you anywhere.
Thanks for the comment Ron!
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Kathy said:
As most people will probably attest to, I have found teenagers to be exceptionally good at using social media to a great extent. I guess it really does help to grow up with this stuff. Wait till your my age missy.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Lol! I think that because a lot of teens grew up with the Internet surrounding us, it only makes sense that we’re pretty savvy with the web. When I’m your age I hope to still be commenting on this blog
Thanks for the comment Kathy!
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Thor said:
Have an inspirational bio like Nicholas Cardot!
Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Thanks for the comment Thor!
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Dennis Edell | Direct Sales Marketing said:
#4 goes hand-in-hand with growing your following organically, and bot using mass follow garbage.
It’s not easy paying attention to one, with 12000 in the way that mean nothing.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I couldn’t agree more Dennis.
Thanks for the comment!
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Reza Winandar said:
Oftenly teenager post too much tweets on their twitter page, and this is sucks. Just tweet any nice thing but don’t make a conversation with your friends so your followers wouldn’t disturbed.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I hear what your saying Reza, and for the most part, I agree with you, However, I think that it’s incredibly important to keep conversations going on Twitter, even if they’re with friends. As long as you don’t spend too much time gossiping to your friends, I see no problem with it.
Thanks for the comment!
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Robin said:
Jasmine, a great en fun post to read indeed. It is especially cool to see you teenagers going at social media like it is second nature.
Although i have to say that msn in my day was a awesome but also a very bad thing. Because the topic of bullies, they were on the internet to. So i find it cool to see you all on the web. But try to stay in contact with yourself and friends offline.. Keep up the good work!!!
Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I remember when MSN became all the rage. Unfortunately it became very distracting for some and it eventually fizzled out, as did the other social media sites, Bebo and MySpace. I hope that Twitter doesn’t go down the same path.
Indeed, there are plenty of bullies to ruin the web but as I said with point #2 , it’s important to play nice
Thanks for the comment Robin!
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House Rabbit said:
Thanks for these tips Jasmine.
I’ve recently started using Twitter, so I need all the tips I can get. I’m going to try to remember all of these as I use Twitter more, I particularly like numbers 4 and 5.
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
Good luck on your new Twitter journey, if you need any help or advice on how to use Twitter, just send me a tweet @Jasmino924 and I’ll do my best to help you.
Thanks for the comment!
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Hajile Senob said:
More sociable than ever, that’s what Facebook and Twitter brought to me and I even met again my classmates from high school. This is the reason why I change my negative impression with this social networks. They are quite useful not only with personal life but with online marketing too. Cool posts Jasmine!
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Jasmine Henry from J Station X said:
I agree that social networks aren’t just for socialising. They have so many more features that allow us to network with other people and market our blogs.
Thanks for the comment Hajile!
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